In the chapter Encouraging the Encourager, Dick Vermeil, a former American head coach, contacted the author only to tell him that he has been reading and admiring his work. The author claimed, 'It was a real privilege to chat with him. That kind of encouragement can energize a person for a long time!'.
John then mentioned, 'Take some time to contact someone who has encouraged you. Let the person know what his or her work has meant to you. Everybody needs encouragement!'
I would like to quote another of John's statement that somehow reminded me of a person. 'I had mentioned that when I read an excellent book and I take away a lot from it, I jot a note to the author to say thank you and let him or her know what the work meant to me. All teachers want to hear that their work is making a difference'.
As a teacher, sometimes we say many things to our students. We can't even remember what we say or when we say it. However, I think it was the year 2004 or 2005, I was at the school field. I don't remember what I was doing there but somehow there were many students. One of the students whom I never taught but recognized, brought an album full with beautiful pictures taken by himself. He was interested in photography and his parents own a photo shop.
Anyway, I remembered pointing at one picture which I really like. And I think I was really admiring his work, sincerely. As time passed, it was the month of May and we celebrated teacher's day. To my surprised, the boy, whom I've never taught, came to my desk and gave me a present. I thanked him of course but did not open it right away. I think when I went home, I unwrapped the gift and was extremely surprised to see the exact picture that I love the most in his album, placed in a nice photo frame.
I think I never did tell him how much that picture reflects my life as a teacher. It was not about getting the gift that touches my heart but merely the act of remembering me. Only by giving me that picture, he made me realised that I'm not invisible and someone is actually listening to me. At times you think students ignore you but I believe that there will be a year when another student will appreciate a teacher's hard work. That indeed will be another great encouragement.
A picture of the Sarawak river taken by the photographer, Chai Jui Khiong.
