Sunday, July 4, 2010

About love

Teenage life is over.  Being matured is not an easy task or role to play.  Being a teenager, life was all about fun and love.  Lovers come and lovers go.  Perhaps that is the circle of love.  As I received my key of freedom, I learnt that problems involving love is the most difficult to solve.  Not only does it play with the heart, but it also affects the mind.  Psychologically, people especially teenagers, go crazy over it and throughout the end of the day, they ended up frustrated.  Some intend in committing suicide.  Yet still, many say that love is wonderful.  What wonders does it bring when it makes people suffer in vain?  Shakespeare should change his quotation to, 'To love or not to love.  That is the question!'.

When someone gets hook in love, the world becomes a gloomy place for the dead to live.  Heart-breakers shut themselves in their rooms, crying their hearts out and not wanting to eat a single food to fill the empty stomach.  Starvation is the solution.  Then again, perhaps that is why love is great, for it is able to control the human actions and minds.

Teenagers always desire to feel love.  No doubt it is great in the beginning until everything is over.  The heart is crushed like grapes turned into wine.  Teenagers feel confuse on what to do with their life since love is over.  Pain is all they feel and running away from everyone is the best solution.  However, we must always keep our faith in Allah and ourselves.. At times we forget the presence of Allah.  Putting aside the one who gives us the soul, the body and the mind, the ability to breathe air and most of all to feel love.  Yet people lose hope in faith.  Failure does not come by itself if one does not seek for it.

When will love ever stop?  Love pulls you up and then it also brings you down.  Once it is beautiful, then it turns ugly.  Will all these ever end where love will remain forever?  Even in marriage the unlucky ones will end up in divorce.  Love is a destroyer, not a builder.



BUT BEWARE...
these are only the thoughts of failures and losers.  A person with strong faith and strength will look upon the failure to love and be loved as an experience of life and a mistake that can be corrected and not be repeated.  Those who lost their husbands and wives in a divorce or lovers who broke up after years of togetherness, fear not of loving again.  The world will never stop from a stormy weather.  If anyone wants to explore the world, one does not have to wait until the rain stops.  Just go outside and look at the wonders of nature.  Believe in whatever you want to do and not what others want you to do.  In a world full of lies, there is nothing more wonderful than to trust in yourself.

4 comments:

  1. Salam kitak..

    Bila hidup menjadi tidak terurus kerana kecewa ingatlah setiap benda di dunia ini tidak akan kekal lama .. tidak terkecuali CINTA. Jadi terimalah realiti.. Di mana ada cinta di situ pasti akan ada perpisahan cuma masanya sekarang atau kemudian...

    Moga kitak sihat..

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  2. Berjaya dalam cinta memang akan memberi kekuatan, tapi, kalau dipandang secara positif, gagal dalam cinta juga akan membina kekuatan....

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  3. Thumbs up, dr love :)

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  4. wassalam..

    thank you all for the advice..

    ehem2.. think positive.. love works in a mysterious way

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